I am a:
- celebration coach and life coach
- teacher and
passionate learner
- lover of music, dance, theater, film, and photography
- writer
- visionary, pioneer, and inventor
- mother and lover of all things living and
part of this amazing planet
- vegetarian whole foods cook
- fascinated with meeting people, having
conversations that matter, and deeply listening with calm, grounded presence.
I see
my life and work as a piece of art, and as a part of creation. All that I
have learned, all that has inspired me is part of who I am and what I bring to
coaching you in celebrating your life.
My passion for building community began with my early
childhood, growing up in small, rural New
Hampshire towns, surrounded by loving members of
the religious communities my father ministered to. After he left the ministry to pursue
teaching, I felt a longing for the experience of community that I had known,
and developed a passion for creating it, wherever I worked and lived.
A fascination with people’s unique self began with my own
struggle to determine mine, as a twin. As
a teenager, I waited to dress after my sister each morning, to avoid wearing
identical clothes, and people not knowing who I was, after a whole childhood of
being confused with her. This began a
life long endeavor to be who I uniquely was in the world, and help others do
the same.
Helping people successfully move through major life
transitions, began in my first job as a nurse’s aide on a hospital physical
rehabilitation unit, supporting people in learning how to walk and talk again. Later as a newspaper reporter, I discovered a
love of interviewing people and writing human interest stories about their
lives.
For years, I worked as a therapeutic recreation program
director with elderly. This work
developed my love of creating celebrations and programs, as well as my
understanding of how to create celebrations that meet the needs of the whole
person: meeting physical, emotional, social, and spiritual needs. It also fine tuned my love of interviewing
people and being a deep listener, and increased my fascination with people’s
life stories.
My claims investigator training for a medical malpractice
insurance company in San Francisco,
gave birth to a vision of creating an on-site arts program there. As I spent whole days pouring through legal
and medical aspects of claims, learning to investigate, I became personally
aware of the imbalance of exclusively using the thinking side of my brain all
day.
As an investigator, I observed the need in my co-workers for
a renewing experience in our everyday work life. A statement by my smoking coworker, that
he didn’t care about the effects of his addiction because the world would not
survive much longer anyway, jolted me into a mission to create experiences that
offer people hope and nurture their soul.
This birthed years of working to guide organizations in creating
celebration that inspires and feeds the whole self.
My mission as a mother has been to create peace in the world
by bringing up children that become the peace that the world needs. As I birth this celebration coaching, this
third baby, I bring to my coaching, the presence that I learned, that my
children taught me, when their wisdom, wonder and beauty stopped my
busyness. I learned more deeply the
value of daily ritual and creating celebrations with them that were unique,
unforgettable, creative, and nurturing.
I bring the joy and challenge of coaching you to do what you
love in your life, from my experience of guiding my own daughter and son to
direct their own learning through being home schooled. They taught me how to support the development
of a unique person, and trust in the wisdom of stepping out of the way and just
supporting it’s unfolding, trusting in the process of growing and becoming who
you have always been.
Since 2000 I have been coaching individual clients, leading
workshops, as well as being coached personally and professionally.
My learning has been influenced by: the work
of coach Cheryl Richardson; the Coaches Training Institute; the creative
recovery work of Julia Cameron; Michael and Justine Toms work on doing what you
love; the work on celebration and ritual by the Alternatives organization,
ritual expert Meg Cox, family therapist William J. Doherty; and the national
initiative of the Simplicity Forum called Take Back Your Time.
My formal education includes:
- B.A.
in English Literature, minor studies in art and anthropology, Central Ct. State University.
- Post
graduate courses in: counseling, personnel management , business
communication and problem solving, organization transformation.
I am an active member of the following communities:
- The
Western Massachusetts Coaching Alliance
- The
Unitarian Universalist Society of Greater Springfield
I live in the Pioneer Valley of Western Massachusetts with
my husband and 2 children.